Friendship

At last, I want to talk about some things of friendship that are quite strange to me. They don't need to be bad, but I'd like to know about other's oppinions:

First out of two: friendship and telling the truth. I mean, friends are supposed to tell the truth to eachother, but if you really always say what you think, they nearly always get mad at you. So what are people supposed to do? If we lie or simply not say things to not upset the other, he gets angry at you, but if you do tell him, he'll also get upset. It's something I never understood, which doesn't mean I'm not like that. I guess everyone is..

Second thing are people you trust, you tell them something, and they make fun of you. I experienced it not so long ago: you tell someone you're in love and tell him who it is, and he/she starts laughing and says "How could you fall in love with someone like him/her?" I mean, hey, it's not funny. You don't really choose who you're falling in love with and even if you did, people should always respect it and not make fun of it.

I don't really remember anything else to complain about, so I'll stop for now, thanks for the attention.

Nicole.